THE CONCEPT OF BREACH OF PROMISE TO MARRY

THE CONCEPT OF BREACH OF PROMISE TO MARRY[1]
INTRODUCTION
There can be no action for breach of promise unless a contract to marry has been made. There are no formal requirements regarding the contract. It need not to be evidenced by writing and the law prescribes no particular form of words. A promise by one person to marry another is not binding unless and until that other also promises to marry the first person. Mutual promises to marry may be implied from the conduct of the parties. A declaration of intention to marry another made to a third person who will not constitute a promise unless communicated to the other person on the authority of the person making the declaration. While it is not necessary that the mutual promises should be concurrent, both should be made within a reasonable time of one another. An action for breach of promise to marry may be taken by a man as well as a woman. In modern times there have been instances of successful action by men.[2]
A party who fails to fulfill the promise breaches the promise to marry. A promise to marry is breached if a party repudiates his obligations or does an act that hinders the other party from fulfilling his obligations under the contract (such as getting married to a third party). In addition, if a date is fixed, a party may fail to attend the marriage ceremony.[3]
MARRIAGE
This has been universally defined as the legal relationship between a husband and wife, a union between a man and a woman[4] and of course an interpersonal relationship with governmental, social or religious recognition, usually intimate and sexual and often created as a contract.[5]
It has also been defined as the voluntary union for life of one man and one woman, to the exclusion of all others[6]
BREACH OF CONTRACT TO MARRY
Before the breach is constituted, two elements must be proved.
(1)          The Defendant made a promise to the Plaintiff under the Marriage Act.
(2)          That one party to the agreement has willfully and persistently refused to honour his/her obligation.
Until when the above mentioned elements have been proved to the satisfaction of the Court, before the injured party can actually sue and claim for damages. It should be said straightaway that proof of the elements of breach is not an automatic ticket to claim for damages in the court of law. No damages may be recovered unless Section 197 [7] has been complied with and the provision states thus:
No Plaintiff in any action for breach of promise of marriage can recover a verdict unless his or her testimony is corroborated by some other material evidence in support of such promise, and the fact that the defendant did not answer letters affirming that he had promised to marry the Plaintiff is not such corroboration.
It is trite law, that where the evidence supports the promise, that is not enough to prove breach. Evidence of corroboration needs not to go the length of establishing a contract. It should be noted that in Nigeria, cases of breach of promise to marry rarely get to court.
It should be noted that the corroboration of evidence must attain the standard of proof in civil case - proof on a balance of probability, otherwise, several explanations by the defendant might enable him escape liability.

NATURE OF BREACH
This may take two forms:
A.   NON-PERFORMANCE: This in modern times is known as jilt. This may be a situation where the marriage date has been fixed but the defendant willfully refuses to turn up for the marriage and this constitute a breach or on the other hand, there is no specific date fixed, the law implies that the promise is for one to marry within a reasonable time or at the request of one party (most occasions, at the request of the groom),
In both instances as mentioned above, the basic charge is failure of the defendant to perform his obligation as and at when due. An instance of non-performance was portrayed in the case of MARTINS V ADENUGBA. [8] The parties where engaged. In September 1942 the defendant informed the plaintiff’s parents that he had completed preliminary arrangements for the marriage to take place on 17th September. On the appointed day, the defendant went into the registry alone, leaving the Plaintiff outside. He came out after a while and informed the Plaintiff and her relations that they had been married. After this incident, the parties proceeded on the same day to St. Peter’s Church, Lagos for the church blessing. The Plaintiff was induced to believe that she was married to the defendant. She lived with the defendant from September 1942 to December 1945, when she left him on account of his cruel conduct. On enquiry then, she discovered that no valid marriage had actually taken place. She instituted an action for breach of promise. Brook acting CJ held that this was a proper cause of action and that she was entitled to recover damages. The court pointed out that alternatively, she could have sued on deceit.
However, when a promise is made subject to a condition precedent then there is no breach. For instance, in AIYEDE VS NORMAN WILLIAMS [9] the defendant based the promise on the condition that his father would give his consent to the marriage (after which the father didn’t give). The defendant married another woman and was sued. COKER J (as he then was) opined that:
Where the promise is only to be carried into effect on or after the happening of a certain contingency that contingency must happen before the promise becomes actionable. The promise is however entitled to sue as on the breach of an executor contract where the promissory does any act whereby he would be incapable of performing the contract if and when the agreed contingency arrives.
In that case, necessary consent was not obtained and Plaintiff’s case was dismissed. Similarly, a promise of marriage as soon as business is settled and is viewed as conditional promise, thus, it is not actionable. In COLE V COTTINGHAM, [10] where it was held that a promise made to a woman to marry her as quickly as her business is settled is a conditional breach.
B.   ANTICIPATORY BREACH: Under this form, there are 2 issues, it may either be the repudiation of obligation- where a party announces his intention, not to perform, before the contractual fixed date of performance, OR by such conduct on his part puts it to perform his obligation. Herein, he marries another person in lieu of the other party so contracted. This is an anticipatory breach.
In USO V IKETUNBOSIN [11] IRWIN J held that the defendant, who actually promised to marry the defendant, married another person therefore, the Plaintiff is entitled to pay damages.
JUSTIFICATION FOR THE BREACH & DEFENCE
A promise by a married man or woman to marry another person is actionable where the Plaintiff had no knowledge of the defendant’s married state. A promise by a married man or woman to another person is actionable where the plaintiff had no knowledge of the defendant’s married state. Where, however, the other person is aware of the defendant’s position, a promise by the defendant to marry that person after the death of his or her spouse will be unenforceable on the ground of public policy.
On the other hand a promise to marry made by a party to a void marriage will be enforceable. Similarly, a promise by the defendant to marry the other person after he or she has obtained an annulment of a voidable marriage will be unenforceable. (A marriage that is void may be so treated by any person and does not require decree of annulment). A promise to marry conditional upon obtaining a divorce outside the jurisdiction would presumably be unenforceable on the ground of public policy. [12]
GENERAL DEFENCES
A Defendant in an action for breach of promise to marry may plead some justification for the breach and therefore is entitled to all defences available to a defendant in breach of ordinary contract [13] thus, fraud, duress, misrepresentation may provide a good defence for a breach of promise to marry. In other words, a defendant is not bound by his promise where he establishes a false representation or fraudulent concealment in material particulars of the pecuniary circumstances of previous life of the Plaintiff.
In WHARTON V LEWIS [14] the defendant in an action for breach of promise successfully pleaded that he had made his promise under fraudulent and false representations about the Plaintiff’s former situation and the circumstances of her family. Abbott, CJ found that the Plaintiff’s representation that her father would leave property for her on his death whereas in fact the father had recently compounded with his creditors, induced the defendant to make his promise. It could, therefore, be pleaded in defence.
SPECIAL DEFENCES
A defendant may also raise certain special defences that may be personal to the Plaintiff. It the “may include some actual moral, physical or mental infirmity in the Plaintiff which makes the Plaintiff unfit for marriage.
This defence presupposes the existence of certain factors. That the Plaintiff is suffering from some moral, physical or mental infirmity and such conditions may include where the man is of bad character; when the woman is loose and immodest and pregnant by a man other than the defendant, where the woman has had an illegitimate child some years earlier;
-          Where the man is of violent and ungovernable temper and threatens to ill-treat the defendant; where one party is suffering from tuberculosis. While these illustrations relate to the person of the Plaintiff, it is no defence to plead the supposed status in life of the plaintiff, for example, that he was regarded as wealthy when in fact he is a poor man.
-          The infirmity (which must not be of temporal nature) must be able to render the party unfit for marriage. Thus wherein the infirmity makes plaintiff unfit for marriage on a particular date, but recovers within a reasonable time, for the ceremony, the court may not regard such an infirmity as defence.
-          The defence also avails the defendant where the defendant discovers the infirmity after contracting the marriage. This is subjected to test. A test of the knowledge of the defendant which must be placed on a balance of probability.[15]
-          The infirmity must be proved, where suspicion is not enough to avail the defendant. [16]

DAMAGES
Just like commercial contracts, the quantum of damages in action for breach of promise of marriage is subject to rules of remoteness; [17] the successful plaintiff has the tenacity of suing for damages flowing from the breach or within the contemplations of the parties as at the time of the promise. [18]
Below are some of the forms of damages.
(1)          General Damages: The plaintiff may recover the loss of the marriage. The compensation may relate to loss of consortium [19] she may claim for the loss of status of married woman by which she would have been entitled to support and maintenance by her husband. [20]
(2)          Injured feelings and wounded pride. It was held in BERRY V DA COSTA [21] that:
…in an action for a breach of promise of marriage, the jury are not limited to mere pecuniary loss which the plaintiff has sustained, but may take into their consideration the injured feelings and wounded pride…..
It should be echoed that among the factors that may increase the damage awarded are the seduction of the plaintiff if a woman by the defendant on the basis of a promise to marry her, harsh and unfair treatment and lowering of her prospects of marrying another man. [22]
(3)          Special damages affecting property: Damages may be awarded in respect of money spent or financial loss sustained by the Plaintiff as a direct result of the defendant’s breach of his promise. These may include money spent on durable article intended for use on the wedding day or in the matrimonial home.
It should be noted that the action of the learned judge in this respect may well be open to criticism, for it involves the mixing up of two different legal systems. There is no legal justification for refusing the full remedy provided by English law merely because there is no comparable remedy in customary law. It was because the transaction was one unknown to customary law that English law was applied to the case.
(4)          Recovery of engagement ring and presents: The defendant is entitled to the certain valuables brought in anticipation of marriage. This includes diamond rings and other valuables. Here, as in the case of the engagement ring, the party in breach thereby forfeits any claim to such gifts. While the party in breach is obliged to return to the innocent party presents made by him in contemplation of the marriage, the innocent party on the other hand, is entitled to keep such gifts.
However, where the marriage does not take place, owing to the death or disability as (recognized by law of the party making such gifts), the reasonable inference is that the gift should be returned to the donor. But if the marriage takes place, it has been stated obiter that the engagement ring or gifts will, in the absence of agreement to the contrary, become the absolute property of the recipient and need not be returned. [23]




[1] O. O. DARA ESQ, LL.B(HONS), B.L, Solicitor and Advocate, R. A Adekola & CO. Veterinary Bus stop, Mokola Ibadan, Oyo state. 2014.
[2] Breach of promise – U.S Legal in www.breachofpromise.uslegal.com
[3] Ibid.
[4] See definition from www.diocesoflagoswest.org (Last Visited February 12, 2016)
[5] Ibid
[6] The definition of Marriage as postulated by Lord Penzance in Hyde V Hyde and Woodmansee (L.R) 1 P & D. 130. Although this decision has received diverse of criticism which includes that the statement is an obiter dictum and that it was a mere defence of marriage and not a definition of it.
[7] Evidence Act, 2011.
[8] (1946) 18 NLR 63.
[9] (1960) ALL 253
[10] (1837) 8 CAR, P. 75, 173 ER 406
[11] (1975) WRNLR, 187.
[12] But in England, in 1937, the House of Lords held that this did not apply in a case where the promise was made after a decree nisi had been pronounced. Fender v. St. John Mildmay [1938 A. C. 1]. The fact that the defendant is already engaged to another person will not relieve him of liability.
[13] E. I. Nwogugu; The Family Law in Nigeria 2011 edition
[14] (1824) I C & P 529, 171 ER 1303
[15] E. I. Nwogugu (Ibid)
[16] The four basic factors of special defence of infirmity. JEFFERSON V PASKELL, (1916)1 KB, 57, 70
[17] In English law, remoteness is a set of rules in both tort and contract, which limits the amount of compensatory damages for a wrong.
18.In negligence, the test of causation not only requires that the defendant was the cause in fact, but also requires that the loss or damage sustained by the claimant was not too remote

[19] Consortium: Conjugal fellowship of husband and wife, and the right of each to the company, society, co-operation, affection, and of the other in every conjugal relation. Blacks” Law Dictionary (8th Edition)
[20] UGBONNA V MORAH (1940) 15 NLR 78
[21] (1866) LR 1 CP 331, 333
[22] USO V IKETUNBOSIN (Supra)
[23] [23] E. I. Nwogugu op cit

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